Another familiar story on the sexual revolution in China:

The no-tell motels in Beijing’s university districts pulsate with sex.

Every weekend, lusty college couples make a beeline past greasy
spoon restaurants and bootleg video game shops for the dim hotel
lobbies to book three-hour blocks of privacy. Students fill half the
simple but tidy rooms at the Cheng Lin Ming Guang Hotel, a 10-minute
walk from Beijing Normal University.

China is in the midst of a
sexual revolution, a byproduct of rising prosperity and looser
government restrictions on private life. The relaxed attitudes about
sex mark a historic turnaround from the days when love and sex were
denounced as bourgeois decadence, and unisex Mao suits and drab
austerity were the norm.

     They don’t add the usual line about the loss of Confucian propriety, but it does call to mind Analects 16.7:

Confucius said: "The noble-minded guard against three things: in youth, when ch’i and blood are unsettled, they guard against beautiful women; in their prime, when ch’i and blood are unbending, they guard against belligerence; and in old age, when ch’i and blood are withering, they guard against avarice.

      Sounds like the boys down at Shida have a whole lot of unsettled ch’i.

        I don’t think Confucius was a prude.  After all, he visited with Lady Nan (6.27), who had a bad reputation for these things, and Heaven did not come down upon him.  We don’t know if he had sex with Lady Nan (I imagine not) but even if he didn’t, he did not let her ill repute to stand in the way of visiting with her. 

        Sex was obviously important to him for reproduction – to carry on the cultivation of our closest loving relationships – but if there was a bit of fun to have in it, then why not?  As long as it did not get in the way of Duty.

       Let me push it a bit further by raising the question of homosexuality.  Would Confucius have rejected it?  Most likely.  But does a contemporary application of Confucian thought necessarily have to reject it as well?  No.  What matters, I think, is not so much the sex as how much and to what purpose.  A Confucian would likely be uncomfortable with a personal identity that emphasized sexuality, which would elevate that physical interaction above other, more fundamental, social interactions.  But if a homosexual person maintained a committed relationship with a partner while carrying out his or her other essential social duties, why not?  Indeed, given the importance of committed enactment of Duty, a contemporary Confucian would find virtue in gay and lesbian marriage.

      What would make Confucius most unhappy with the most recent story about sexual liberation in Beijing is this:

Maintaining a relationship can be too much work, Chu added. "If when we
eat I always put food on your plate for you and one day I don’t, then
you might get mad and fuss at me. These little fights are really hard,"
she said. "So you might have a one-night stand. It’s just so much
easier."

 If the sex is taking us away from tending to our social relationships, then it is taking us away from Humanity, and that is, for a Confucian, a sad, sad thing.

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4 responses to “The Master would not be Happy”

  1. CP Avatar

    Hard to imagine that Confucius would condone any “relationship” that has one partner seeing the other as essentially nothing more than “a pot”. Moreover, as you note, the emphasis on one’s own bodily desires, which on its own is clearly not problematic as it is a part of our natural constitution, becomes neurotic when it is pursued at the cost of the cultivation of human relationships. Lastly, it’s hard to believe that a person who regularly visits women who are seen as “pots” will then be able to “shut off” the dispositions this builds up when that person interacts with his own family/loved ones. As the Confucian makes clear, there’s no compartmentalization of life. What you do in one “sphere” ripples out into the others eventually. You become what you do.

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  2. isha Avatar
    isha

    What the Master would say if he learned the wisdom of regime change vie Hollywood?
    Quote( Please tell me if it is not quoted correctly )
    “Citing the hundreds of thousands of satellite television dishes in Iran, Benjamin Netanyahu told the House Government Reform Committee that the United States could incite a revolution against the conservative Iranian clergy through the use of such Fox Broadcasting staples as “Melrose Place” and “Beverly Hills 90210” — both of which feature beautiful young people in varying states of undress, living, glamorous, materialistic lives and engaging in promiscuous sex.
    “This is pretty subversive stuff,” Netanyahu told the committee. “The kids of Iran would want the nice clothes they see on those shows. They would want the swimming pools and fancy lifestyles.”

    Now these wise man from Israel has already “regime changed” the Old Glory into New Roman Empire with their Hollywood, the next step by its inner logic of course should be target on China, Iran… all the leftovers of culture, where decency and restrains still have relevency…
    Nothing is happening in the vaccum…
    Isha

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  3. isha Avatar
    isha

    Bloomberg — One in four teenage girls in the U.S. had at least one common sexually transmitted disease, according to the first national study to assess combined rates of the most common STDs among young women.
    About 3.2 million women between ages 14 and 19 had human papillomavirus, chlamydia, genital herpes or trichomoniasis. That number would be even higher if less-common diseases such as HIV/AIDS, syphilis and gonorrhea were included in the analysis, according to the report released today by the U.S. Center’s for Disease Control and Prevention.
    Sexually transmitted diseases cost almost $15 billion to treat annually in the U.S., and more than half of those infected are under 24 years old, according to the Atlanta-based CDC. About half the young women in today’s study reported having sex, and 40 percent of sexually active women had STDs. HPV, a virus that causes cervical cancer, was the most common infection, prevalent among 18 percent of the teen girls in the study.
    What we found is alarming,'' said Sara Forhan, author of the study and a researcher at the CDC's division of STD prevention.One of the things that we think is particularly important is how fast the STDs appear. In those young women who report sex with just one sexual partner in their lifetime, the prevalence of STDs is 20 percent.”
    The study analyzed data from 838 teenagers who participated in a national health study in 2003 and 2004. Researchers used the nationally representative sample to project rates across the U.S. The second most common infection after HPV was Chlamydia, found in 4 percent of the young women.
    Gardasil Vaccine
    Merck & Co.’s Gardasil vaccine, approved in June 2006, protects against HPV that causes cervical cancer and genital warts. The shot is recommended for women aged 9 to 26 and is approved for funding through the U.S. Vaccines for Children program in all 50 states. Gardasil has become one of Merck’s top-selling products, with $1.48 billion in sales last year. About 10 percent of women ages 18 to 26 have received the shot, according to the CDC.
    Chlamydia often infects people without causing symptoms, and as many as 2.8 million Americans may have it. Without treatment, the disease can cause pain and permanent damage to the reproductive system. Women are especially susceptible to harm from Chlamydia, which can cause infertility.
    Genital Herpes caused by type 2 herpes simplex virus can stay in the body for a lifetime, though its symptomatic blister outbreaks often decrease with time. Most people who carry the incurable disease never show symptoms and spread the disease without being aware of it. Trichomoniasis is a painful parasite infection occurring in both men and women that’s curable with prescription drugs.
    Reducing Infections
    The CDC is trying to find ways to lower rates of infection in minorities, especially blacks, who suffer from sexually transmitted diseases at rates several times higher than whites. Almost half of young black women had an STD, compared with 20 percent of young white women, according to today’s report.
    The report was released at the National STD Prevention Conference in Chicago. A separate study released today showed that most women who sought contraception from their doctors weren’t getting counseling on STD prevention or being tested for infections.
    The national survey of adults ages 15 through 44 found that women were almost twice more likely to receive contraceptive services than STD services. About a third of women who sought services related to unprotected sex, such as pregnancy testing or emergency contraception, didn’t receive STD counseling, testing or treatment.

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  4. Robert Avatar
    Robert

    The young woman in the article said that sometimes she just wants a sexual partner without the troubles they sometimes bring. A lover that won’t drive her crazy, to paraphrase from Mellencamp. I did not hear her say that she wanted less human interaction, only to try and divorce the expression of her sexuality apart from negative social interactions. This is most likely naive of her, given the vast history of human sexuality…but I’m not ready to call her and her ilk immoral or dangerous.
    STDs, violence and unwanted pregnancies happen within relationships perhaps even more than outside of relationships because in general singles have less sex than do couples.
    At its best sexuality is creative, artistic and a deep mystery. Let the young try things out and make mistakes as they do so…it’s all we ever did.

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