Three years ago today Aidan died.

Passage 11 of the Daodejing is turning in my head today;

Thirty spokes gathered at each hub:
absence makes the cart work.
A storage jar fashioned our of clay:
absence makes the jar work.
Door and windows cut in a house:
absence makes the house work.

Presence give things their value,
but absence makes them work.


Aidan's presence certainly gave my life a new value, and his absence continues to animate me.

Aidanri

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4 responses to “Thoughts on March 19th”

  1. The Rambling Taoist Avatar

    I hear Aiden’s voice through your words, though I was never fortunate enough to hear Aiden’s voice itself. May this be a day to remember his unflagging spirit, though I’m more than certain he touches your every breath.

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  2. Gail Eichinger Avatar

    I feel Alden’s presence, gift, through your writing. The magnitude and miracle of his life – evident.
    If I may – humbly and carefully I share the following – respecting the intimate, sacred ground I am on. Our grandson was ‘born-still’ and was miraculously brought back to life after five or so minutes – he suffered brain stem damage – and at the same time is so much more than the ‘damage’, the word doesn’t make any sense at all. Each day he is still here is such a precious gift to us all – he has taught us so much as Alden has taught you.
    These are the lyrics to his song – from a poem written for and about him. “Jacob’s Song”… And I am clear when I say, if you would like a copy I WILL send you one – we can work out the details if it is your wish.
    “when you were born
    you were fighting for your life
    we stood by praying
    please don’t give up the fight
    in fear we wathced
    what was so very clear
    when you finally took a breath
    welaughed, we cried, we cheered
    -and so you are with us
    precious miracle from above
    you’re our special child
    filled with so much love
    little boy do you hear me’
    do you hear the love in my voice
    my child do you see me
    do you see the love in my eyeys
    when I hold you feel the love in my heart
    there’s a peace in you
    it was right from the start
    and so remember your whole life through
    you’re a miracle from God above
    he’ll take care of you
    and so my child what ever comes your way
    take hold of our hand we’ll be with you all the way
    your life has just begun
    so many things you will face
    but you’ll have us and God to always embrace
    and so remember
    your whole life through
    you’re a miracle from God above
    he’ll take care of you……
    Love Gail
    peace…..

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  3. Sam Avatar

    Gail, WC, Rambling,
    Thank you.

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